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I am so, so sorry you're facing this heartbreaking situation. There are no easy answers when it comes to such a deeply personal and painful decision. It's completely normal to feel lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of what to do.

You don’t have to make this decision alone. The doctors can explain her condition, the chances of recovery, and what continuing or withdrawing life support might mean for her quality of life. Sometimes, simply asking them to walk you through the possibilities—what could happen if you continue support, and what her experience might be like if she were to survive—can help bring a little clarity.

At the same time, it’s okay to lean on your emotions, too. What do you think she would have wanted? If you’ve ever had conversations with her about her wishes, that could be a guide. If not, what feels most aligned with how she lived her life—the way she loved, the values she held?

This is one of the hardest choices a person can face. Be gentle with yourself. You’re not just making a decision—you’re carrying an immense weight of love and grief.